We had about twenty minutes before he had to leave for the airport. The image I had conjured of the thirty-two-year-old currently en route to my front door from our meager interaction on Grindr was as telling as a police report: an assumed age, height, and weight, as well as one scrupulously selected profile picture. And often enough, the photo too ended up a rough sketch. This was last summer when I had just turned twenty-two, fresh off the boat from flirting with my first serious relationship. I was seasick, and as this older man and I hit the sheets, I found that my body struggled to deliver what I had ordered.
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Northwest Arkansas contains all the contrasts and contradictions of other small city gay bars, isolated from gay neighborhoods but close to American landmarks. We spent Independence Day in Fort Smith, with its revitalized brick downtown that celebrates both its frontier heritage on the border of Indian Territory and contemporary art through a series of spectacular murals. There we chatted with bartender Matt and two other patrons who, like us, were out-of-towners.
That was the question Mark S. King said he had to ask himself in the early '80s when friends and loved ones were dying of the "gay plague. On March 15, , King received a call from his friend, a nurse, who had discreetly tested him for the virus — he was positive. It was like a 'Twilight Zone' episode where everyone in town just starts disappearing. Mark S.